Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Erika's Financial Aid Program: Tap for Cash

I mentioned the concept of "tapping for cash" on Barry Kirkey's show last night ...

For those who have the limiting belief that they cannot afford my coaching, please go here to the Spiritual Seduction site for my new Financial Aid program.

I'm not going to give you the fish, but I will teach you how to fish.

Please note that I only accept extremely committed and motivated clients nowadays (you can read about my coaching programs here). I don't feel very inspired when people say they can't afford something and are not willing to take the basic steps to change that situation. So if you're struggling financially, your willingness to follow through on this exercise is an indicator of our compatibility for a coaching relationship :)

Email me at erika.awakening@gmail.com to inquire about my coaching programs or to propose a custom coaching package tailored just for you.

6 comments:

kimmo framelius said...

hi
i love your beautiful text

take care

Gayla said...

Hey Erika,

I posted over on Spiritual Seduction... let me know if you want me to post that comment here as well.

Gayla said...

What I notice is the energy that is not congruent with my true self that is in resistance to the ease of creating financial well being... I could point to a person or two who are empathically connected to me in such a way that I have often confused my thoughts with theirs, my feelings as theirs. And I can say, yes, that I am feeling the drag from them and this is one key I am so happy to be aware of now!

I can work differently with that drag... rather than attacking it, which I used to do... go to war with it... now I can go deeper than even the shared thoughts and feeling with this person or that person... I can go to the furthest root of what caused me to connect as deeply as I have with anyone who would be considering creating a dragging energy to delay or prevent creating financial well being.

This brings me to acknowledge there is a personal and impersonal request for empathy.

Things are looking up!

Gayla said...

Hi Erika!

I want to say I totally agree in what you’ve said in Spiritual Seduction.

I may not always have been congruent in my agreement with you and I think that could be because, in part, you just got totally clear about this for yourself… so now, it’s easier to align my own higher self in response to what you are declaring.

I’ve experienced that in the past, when I really wanted to do something, and believed it was important to my well being, I’ve found a way to bring the funds forward to have it happen. Usually, more love and funds came as a result of honoring what I felt I most wanted to do next to support my evolution.

The magic of creating is what it is all about! Hey wait! I just got that and why, when offered everything I could dream of financially from a man, I’ve been slightly discontent. That would have sounded crazy to me until I wrote the word "magic" and then it hit me why I keep not going for that life fully with the man as the total provider… It has nothing to do with feminism!!!

I had to crack beneath the cliches everyone always mirrors to me about “being the independent woman who can do it on her own and who doesn’t need a man to do it for me… blah, blah, blah” and look deeper at why I drive people who have attempted to provide all my financial needs away… It dawned on me! It is about learning to work with all my magically talents and abilities in their highest and most in integrity forms! Because the people I get to hang out with when I’m in full integrity are the most awesome people, the things I get to do with them are the stellar opportunities in life. The love and joy I’m able to share of myself from that place of harnessing all my beauty-way-magic is the purest and always becoming purer with every step forward into deepening in integrity with myself and with others…

Money creation is pleasurable… and it’s the integrity part of the process that is the real high!

Thank you so much for bringing these tools together in your blog today!

Love,
~Gayla

Daria said...

Money creation is pleasurable!!

Thanks Gayla!

I love that! I feel good about it wow!

Erika said...

Gayla,

I received your comment today about the letter for liberating relationships post. I think you were reading the old version, not the new version.

This "not taking responsibility for each other's feelings" thing is a bit delicate. It's an NVC concept, but could be misunderstood. It does NOT mean we can *disregard* each other's feelings. It's much more along the line of not feeling *guilty* about the other person's feelings, because guilt is not helpful. So we replace guilt with compassion.

I absolutely choose to be with a man who *cherishes* my feelings and who is committed to helping me get back to a good-feeling place if we have an upset.

Does that help?

cheers,
Erika